Wednesday, June 22, 2011

A Marriage Journey

My husband and I are thinking about doing a video together on our marriage adventures. If we were to put several together, what would you like to hear us share?

I can tell you we've been through our share of frustrations, control, anger, tears and confusion. Even now we have something very hurtful going on in our family, but God is amazing even through this. Now 26 years later (together for 29 years), we are so very blessed with an amazing marriage. It has and will continue to withstand all the world throws at us.

We have thought about sharing our adventure of praying together. What a disaster that was in the beginning, but God even used that! We had someone about fall out of their chair when my husband shared a portion of his prayer in our 'early' days.

So with that said, please share my blog with others and leave some ideas.
Thank you!

"For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.' So they are no longer two, but one. Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate." Mark 10:7-9

Sunday, June 19, 2011

Forgive Them?! Really?!

This is a video I did awhile back on forgiveness. This has been one of my biggest struggles but I'm gaining victory!




“There is no love without forgiveness, and there is no forgiveness without love.” Bryant H. McGill

Tuesday, June 14, 2011

Hillsong United

They are coming to Indianapolis, Indiana on June 20, 2011 !!!
This is sure to be an awesome night of worship.
I'm hoping to be a part of this and I will go with no fear (I have a video on overcoming anxiety/fear on my youtube account -blessedandfit). God is faithful




Get more information here
http://www.premierproductions.com/event.php?e_id=1150

Monday, April 11, 2011

Mac n Cheese Yummy! New Recipe I'm Going to Try

I had to share this video. I will be making these and hopefully not eating them all by myself !! I LOVE Mac n Cheese!!!

Tuesday, March 8, 2011

Blood Drive Independent Movie Short

I just have to brag on my husband. This is his second film. In 'Blood Drive' he is a detective.
On March 19th at 4pm at The Pizza Barn at 698 Old Plank Rd Bargersville, IN will be the premier of "Blood Drive", it will also start being sold then. It has already been accepted into the LA Film Fest.

How cool is that! AND my husband wrote two of the song featured in the film. I'm so proud of him!! Now I know why I was suppose to get fit - I'm going to have to keep up with him in his acting and music - here we go!!


Tuesday, February 8, 2011

Why?

Have you really taken the time to ask yourself WHY?

Why do I want to lose weight?
Why do I want to quit smoking?
Why do I want to begin a ministry?
Why do I want to get out of debt?
Why do I want to ........

I know when I answered these questions from a 'me' standpoint - because I want to look good in a certain dress.....because I want to smell better.....basically selfish reasons, temporary reasons.
the I kept me from being successful, the motivation just wasn't there so the laziness and reasons why I shouldn't or can't do it weighed heavily on me. That was uncomfortable so I quit trying.

When I asked myself if this is something God wanted me to do, had a confirmation - then I would ask those why questions again.
So now I ask from a spiritual standpoint, from what God's word says - and I'm more motivated than I have ever been!
I want to be healthy because God made my
body and His spirt lives in me.
I need to be healthy so I can do
Kingdom work.
I want my body to function the way
He created it to function.
I know that stopping the cigarette addiction
will improve my health in many ways.
I want to be debt free so I can start a ministry,
give to missions, enjoy life and
be a blessing.

There is so much to be said about having a desire to accomplish something and moving forward because you know it's Gods will for you. He will equip you. We have to do our part, we can't just sit and say okay, you can start taking this extra weight off of me anytime now God......
No, we have to get up and do what we can. If you can only do 3 minutes on a treadmill or 5 minutes of a workout - do it! As you obey and draw upon the strength of the Lord you will begin to see that move up to 7 minutes then 10 minutes - it keeps going up until you reach a good workout schedule.

I heard part of an awesome sermon that I found interesting. The pastor was talking about passing the offering basket, instead of using the excuse of not being able to quit smoking - put those cigarettes in the basket and say, this is my offering I release my addiction to You, Lord. That's a good first step to take.

I have tried for years to get back into an exercise program and a better way of eating. I failed more times than I care to count. Yes I did lose weight and did ok for awhile but then I would get lazy, not see my goal anymore and the weight came back plus more!

About 6 or 7 months ago I heard (in my spirit) the Lord calling me to get healthy, to be prepared for things to come. Whether that is traveling with my husband as he begins to write music again or in some other ministry, I want to be ready. I have a goal and I have the Lord's promise that He will help me and He has! I have gone from the 3 minutes to 30 minutes on an elliptical. I have found a DVD I look forward to exercising to.
Has every day been easy? NOPE but I now take the time to seek God and see if it's truly a day my body needs rest or if it's a lie. I'm retraining my mind to not fall into the pit of thinking about how bad I feel to - this will pass, I'm feeling better and will feel better when I get some kind of exercise in. I have found that most days all I needed was to get up and get moving.

No more excuses! You can change what you know needs to be changed in your life. My pity party is over!